Sunday, July 13, 2008

What's with this attitude?

Aren't doctors meant to be life-savers? Aren't they regarded equal to God?

Background - Amma regularly goes to a school for the mentally retarded, to spend time with the children, keep them occupied with various activities including singing. There's this one kid who is 5 years old, who had a problem walking. She needed special shoes which she'd outgrown and amma wanted to help out. However, upon speaking to the kid's parents and looking at her reports (which were 4 years old), it was realised that it was the lower part of her body that had been affected at the time of birth and not her brain functionality. Since she was slow in learning, her parents being poor didn't get her checked up with any doctor, and got her admitted in this school.
Amma got P (my brother's friend) and R (amma's student) to try and help out this kid.
R is studying medicine, so just looking at the medical reports, she explained that it was the lower limbs that were affected, not the brain. In such cases special exercises would help strengthen the limbs and thus help her walk.
P took on the task of calling up a Neuro Surgeon, to confirm that the kid was not mentally ill and that she could be shifted to a regular school.
She explained to the doctor - this is a poor kid and we are trying to help the family. Would you please be able to take a look at the report and confirm that she is mentally fit.
The reaction of the doctor was this - I know how all you NGOs work. But tell me, when whole of Bangalore does not have water, what difference does it make to fix the problem only in your area?
Is this reaction acceptable? I was so furious when I heard this.

So today, the reports were taken to another doctor. Explaining that all that he was required to do was advise on what needs to be done and if the kid can be put in a regular school.
The reaction this time - oh.. well.. she should been treated early on
Yes, we know that. Nothing was done then, would exercises help now and what about putting her in a regular school, can that be done?
Oh - I don't know, for that you'll have to check her IQ
OK - do you know where that can be done? do you think an organisation like Mobility India would be able to help?
uh... ho... hum... may be
The end!

Here are people who are trying to help, trying in their own small way to make a difference and if this is the response...
My question: Would the reaction of the doctors be the same, if it were their own child?

Song for the day: Khuda jaane from Bachna ae haseenon.
Don't know why, but I really like the chorus... so the song's been playing in a loop.
and yes I like the Ahista Ahista song too for the guitar and the peppy rhythm/pace.

8 comments:

  1. Anonymous6:36 PM

    Don't Worry! Yama Loka is waiting for them. They'll never know, whom they are going to meet on the other side of the world.

    Perhaps, a Real Life Anniyan or Indian should emerge to put an end to carelessness and lack of Responsiblity in our Society.

    Consumerism, is at its peak. What's in it for me? Is the driving force that runs our people's Daily lives.

    In a scenario like this, such events are not out of place.

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  2. that is a pathetic state of affairs..its painful..how is the kid now..is she out ?

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  3. A mission statement? Trying to keep the direction, are we? About the blog of "your" thoughts, which is not meant to be deciphered? ...

    If you like guitar, you might like "Zombie" by "Cranberries".

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJEySrDerj0

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  4. Reminded me of this story!

    Once upon a time there was a wise man who used to go to the ocean to do his writing. He had a habit of walking on the beach before he began his work.

    One day he was walking along the shore. As he looked down the beach, he saw a human figure moving like a dancer.

    He smiled to himself to think of someone who would dance to the day. So he began to walk faster to catch up.

    As he got closer, he saw that it was a young man and the young man wasn't dancing, but instead he was reaching down to the shore, picking up something and very gently throwing it into the ocean.

    As he got closer he called out, "Good morning! What are you doing?"

    The young man paused, looked up and replied, "Throwing starfish in the ocean."

    "I guess I should have asked, why are you throwing starfish in the ocean?"

    "The sun is up and the tide is going out. And if I don't throw them in they'll die."

    "But, young man, don't you realize that there are miles and miles of beach and starfish all along it. You can't possibly make a difference!"

    The young man listened politely. Then bent down, picked up another starfish and threw it into the sea, past the breaking waves and said ...

    "It made a difference for that one."

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  5. @arun: tsk tsk ... why do I get the feeling that this version of your story is stretched out like a bollywood masala movie??? [:D]

    @srividya: you opening a discussion forum or what? [;)]

    If ppl listen to you, ask them to clean the Hosur road for me! [;D]

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  6. @ passer by - kid's still there. hopefully something will work out this weekend

    @ arun - that's exactly what came to my mind also

    @ prashanth
    ~ zombie - love that song
    ~ clean up hosur road for u? yeah right! but why do u even care?

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  7. @MSP... I completely agree.. but then i hope u got the crux... it was not mine and tht was something i jus "copy" "paste"d... would it has to be something from my own exp... then lets meet someday... real life stuff's are way diff and i hope u will hav enuf patience then!

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  8. some good news :)
    ~ got her checked up at mobility india. she's now got braces to support her limbs (much lighter and user friendly that the heavy, metal crutches we got her earlier)
    ~ she'll be going for physiotherapy sessions for the next couple of weeks and will be learning exercises to strengthen her muscles
    ~ finally she'll soon be out of the institution as we're trying to get her into one of the government schools near by

    When she was able to walk on her own for the first time without her parents support, with the help of her braces - the smile on her face said it all :)

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