Book time again!

The book for this weekend is "Who will cry when you die?" by Robin Sharma, the author of "The monk who sold his Ferrari"

I thought I'd just flip through the contents of the book and read it later on, but once I read through the 1st chapter I just could not put the book down. So I finished reading the book & am jotting down points that I found interesting.

The book starts off with - We live in an age when we have forgotten what life is all about. We can easily put a man on the moon but we have trouble walking across the street to meet a new neighbour. We can fire a missile across the world with pinpoint accuracy, but we have trouble keeping a date to go with our children to the library. We have email, fax and digital phones but yet we live in a time when human beings have never been less connected. We have lost touch with our own humanity, have lost touch with our purpose & have lost sight of things that matter the most.

Key points in the book to live a better and more fulfilling life:

• Everyday be kind to a stranger
• Every second you dwell in the past, you steal from your future. Every minute you spend focusing on problems, you take away from finding solutions.
• Talk to yourself - choose a phrase for a day and keep repeating it to yourself. Your phrase could be anything like "I am a confident and strong person"
• Worry breaks - assign about 1/2 hour each day to ponder upon your worries and to brood over difficulties. Do this only during the assigned time, any other time during the day is for you to be positive and efficient.
• Take more risks - On your deathbed, it'll not be the risks that you took that you will regret the most. Rather what fills you with greatest amount of regret and sadness is for the risks that you did not take, the opportunities you did not seize & fears you did not face.
• Master your time - Every person is given an equal share of 24 hours in a day - so what separates people who create great lives from the others is - how they use their time.
• Keep your cool - Anyone can get angry - but to get angry with the right person, at the right time for the right reason, to the right degree & in the right way- that is not easy.
• Get good at asking - Ask for a better table at your favourite restaurant, ask for a 2nd free scoop of ice cream, ask for a complimentary upgrade to your flight seat. The person who asks, gets... or at least has a chance of getting.
• Develop your talents - There's a difference between simply existing and living. The deepest personal defeat is the difference between what one is capable of becoming and what one actually becomes,
• Get a coach - Talk to a person who has followed steps to reach success. Learn and follow those steps and success will be yours too. Find your mentor.
• Become a volunteer - "I wept because I had no shoes, until I met a man with no feet". Find time to spend with the less fortunate & you will realise how blessed you are.
  
• Stop complaining start living - The people who get on in this world are the ones who look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them - they make them.
• Increase your value - You will be compensated not by how hard you work but by how much value you add to the world around you.
• Be the CEO of your life - I love this mantra which I've read sometime earlier also "If it is to be, it is up to me"
• Don't be so hard on yourself - Accept your mistakes, learn from it and move on
• Live fully, so you can die happily
  

This was a truly great read :)